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Good morning all you beautiful lovelies! We hope that you have been getting out to enjoy what spring has had to offer us, especially as parts of our lives reopen. Shim Sham and I have taken some time to reassess what we need in our lives, and to give ourselves a little mental health break.Continue reading “Small Hiatus, Big Changes”

Wednesday post pushed to Thursday – but here it is! I finally got back to my journaling. I have been writing around 3 pages in my journal every morning off and on since 2012, and it has been an incredibly useful tool for me. I use it to write out complex thoughts and emotions, andContinue reading “Balancing My Foundations”

The topic of identifying with others is very important to me. Its the reason why growing up I went to block buster searching for movies with two boys touching or holding hands. I felt so desperate to connect with other queer people. To this day I get excited when I learn someone is LGBTQ! InContinue reading “Identification is so important”

Today’s Daily Reflections “Where alcohol has been involved, we have been strangely insane” -Alcoholics Anonymous page 38 When I was still drinking I would fight all day in my head about whether I was going to drink again. I was in constant battle with myself. I would debate in my head how I don’t wantContinue reading “Insanity”

(TW: Body Image, Dieting, Calorie Counting) Ok, I’m just gonna say it! I’m getting stir crazy! I neeed more room to spread out! But not in my home space….in my life. I have spent SO MUCH FREAKING TIME focused on what others think about my life, my choices, my looks, my identity – it’s madeContinue reading “More Room”

Hello beautiful world and Mama Shim Sham! I had a post all ready to go – and it didn’t save! So I’m going to attempt to recreate it in a much more succinct way. Yesterday, my partner Jay and I managed to get appointments for our covid vaccine in a couple of weeks! And IContinue reading “Counting My Lucky Stars”